What’s the point? I mean, why? Seriously, why do you do what you do? And I’m not talking
about the kind of reason you list with your accolades. I mean at the core of
all you do, why do you do it? What’s the point?
Our society gets all hyped up about success, that is, “success”.
We start training our kids at an early age on how to be “successful”: make good
grades, have a good handshake, play a sport and a musical instrument, log hours
of community service, go to church, be nice, don’t use derogatory speech, comb
your hair, wear clean underwear and the one I used a ton, “Make wise choices”. Their father said, “Don’t be stupid.” (His was more effective.)
In our society, academics is pretty much everything and
bragging about our kids’ academic success is the norm. Mommy competition at its
finest. Social media has only heightened this. Goodness, we can tell the whole
world how great our kids are in one status with a few pictures. Of course, what
we’re really doing is highlighting how great we are as parents -but that’s
another story. Good academics in high school leads to a good college which
leads to a degree that leads to a Masters (at least) and we all know that leads
to a good job which means SUCCESS!
And yet, time and again, we find burned out kids, parents,
adults who are going through the drudgery of life, hating their successful
jobs, fake smiling their way to work in their fancy cars as they drop off the
next “successful” generation at their elite daycare … I mean, preschool.
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No, I’m not here to bash success and I’ve politely removed
my tongue from my cheek. I’m here to push your why button. Are you going after
superficial achievements? Are you discovering, like Solomon, that “All is
vanity!”? (Ecclesiasties 1:2) Are you feeling stuck in the mire of life, afraid
to admit but knowing in your gut, that you’re not doing anything of real value
and that you’re dissatisfied?
I’m here today to challenge you to check in with your soul. And not just your soul, check in
with GOD. Ask the tough questions – and it may take a month or two or a year or three years – about your purpose. Why did God put
you on this planet?
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I’ve done this over the past couple of years (and I still
don’t have complete clarity) and one thing I’m convinced of is that God
designed me to help others find greater joy. I believe the ultimate joy experience
comes through knowing Jesus as Savior and I seek to make Him known through my
work. The more ways I find to discover, experience and express joy, the more I
can help you do the same. I write for that reason. I don’t do grammar checks
and I rarely rewrite – I feel good if I even proofread, though I have numerous
examples as to why I should! I just write what God puts on my heart and I pray
that it serves someone else. I bare as much of myself as I can in hope that in
my raw state you will see that happiness and joy are possible for you, too. And
while I’m certified in life coaching, I continue to study and immerse myself in
this work because I owe it to you to bring the best me I can so that you can
find the best you.
I’ve found a passion that fuels me. I’m learning at a deep
level that everything I’ve been through, good and bad, is useful, not just for
me, but for others. Keeping it to myself would deny others of the lesson or help they might need. As I was recently reminded, it’s not my story anyway. “My” story is useful for others. And so, I put it out there and pray God
can use it to encourage those who need it.
If you’re lacking fulfillment and satisfaction, I encourage
you to:
- · Start journaling your questions.
- · Investigate your purpose on earth.
- · Consider how God might use your spiritual gifts. (There are quizzes that may help you know what yours gifts are.)
- · Ask God to show you how He might serve others through you.
- · Read The Serving Leader.
- ·
Examine your values. (A professional life coach
can help with this.)
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